My boyfriend has had 2 jobs in the year and a half weve been together. Ive worked too hard, stressed out too much and given up too much, for her to just give up! And we dont have sex. I wont repeat all the things others have said but I definitely and specifically related to the half-cocked job searches, being unemployed myself due to layoff and proving to him how and that its possible to work your ass off, rely on faith AND works and get a new career. Everyday she went to work in the morning, took off by lunchtime, went to the hospital, received her daily dose of radiotherapy, went home, slept it off at home in the afternoon. I feel like its always important to evaluate the realities we have and ask ourselves fundamental questions about our situation. Their first child was born 1 year later, during whose babyhood my sister must went through periods of not having enough money in the household. Take a vacation was the most absurd. I get weary of no intimacy, no growth, no dates so I pay, I buy, I book travel. Throw his ass out tell him he had seven shots at keeping you and he purposely created the situation he is trying to train you for the next 25 years. I started getting vocal the last 3 years ,, just done and yup that makes me a bitch in his book ,, if I say anything about him not working , keeping work ,, somehow its all my fault for not helping him with resumes and job searches.. Adult Children Living at Home Driving You Crazy - Empowering Parents Now all it takes is me walking through the door at the end of a long hard day to the sight of him playing games of the dishes not yet done to set me off like a screaming banshee. His unemployment ran out last year.. Ive been the bread winner for the longest time. There's nothing to talk about. And to boot, Im seeing men on this board complaining that their women are not working! It is long overdue. Ive already had 2 stress related heart attacks from work harassment and retaliation. You have to look after yourself first, and never hook up with someone who does not try to carry their own weight so to speak. I send love and light your way and hope you find the guidance necessary to make the right decision for your life. Its taking a toll on his health too he cant sleep, hes constantly getting colds, and Im incredibly worried about him. Then a 3 month temp job that ended with ..surprise surprise a back injury, 10 months of workmans comp and a small settlement to pay him off.
