I want to break down and cry. The guilt may be strong because you doubt yourself right now and were surprised by your actions. You do risk upset feelings as a consequence. Feel free to start your own thread if you finally find you've a need to.). :), Ah cawlled *you* 'sistah', dun't mean Ah iz wurn too, 'kayyy, shugah? I was surprised by his reaction, but I shook my head and said it was nothing like that. Wouldn't you? Relationships are about trust, first and foremost. I myself have had issues in the past months but I won't elaborate. IAMHIM (person claiming to be an unregistered passer-by), After all she did say that the kiss lasted for maybe 5 minutes. Which may not seem like a big deal for some of you. Okay. That left just me, the man and another woman. In that sort of scenario, where the kiss (or any intimate contact) lingers for more than half a second - or, put more simply, isn't the kind you'd feel comfortable giving/receiving from your own parent or grandparent - it's an opening of the door, whether or not you subsequently recover your senses and slam it shut again. What is he supposed to do with this information? You had too much to drink and you kissed someone who wasnt your boyfriend or your girlfriend. It was such a weird experience. He's a work colleague by the way, and we would get on well in work but have no contact outside of work). I didnt want to cheat on him and I made up my mind it wouldnt happen again. Lee, thats a good way to CYA - pretend youre talking about this as if it happened to someone else and then gauge your partners reaction. I'm sure you'll survive if you don't tell him and I'm certain that he doesn't need to know. get into counselling. "and though he immediately pulled away". Register in under one minute and get your own agony aunt column - recommended! Spoiler alert: Not that different from kissing a girl, only they dont fancy them. Then I ordered taxis, woke up the other girl and we left. He Have Lipstick Stain Or Make Up Stain On His Face It's an obvious sign that someone kissed him. 14 Effective Ways To Get Over The Guilt Of Cheating - A Conscious Rethink Turning off notifications, deleting messages, and hiding chat apps may all indicate secrecy. I had text my husband so he knew where I was and that was ok. The moment feelings are involved then youve cheated. I have to admire the guy for realizing that he was putting a marriage at risk, and backed away. When I woke up yesterday I still felt drunk but the reality of what happened hit me like a tonne of bricks. ;-) Personally, if nothing happened apart from him buying drinks and giving you a ride home, then I wouldnt have told at all. If he wants to keep her as a "friend", complete access is a must. Him coming to you within 2 days of his wayward deed , when he could have easily gotten away with it, this is something to consider. Try to channel the guilt into something good, into turning your back on temptation and having a good night out with your friends. You were no exception.
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